IP Handbook Page 9 SUMMARY

There has always been a singles group of some sort on the Isle of Wight, but experience has shown that there has never been one as consistently well organised, effective and well thought of as IP. IP has had a firm business-like structure right from the start, and this has been its backbone and mainstay. The original concept was of a telephone contact network, but this aspect has never really taken off while the social aspect has. The infrastructure has nonetheless been consistent throughout.

IP has always been at pains to attempt to disperse the socially less acceptable aspects of the concept of singles group, particularly by encouraging the charitable rôle where the group is outward looking rather than being totally self-absorbed. The magazine has also encouraged an outgoing approach to life, emphasising and encouraging social activity and reporting on that activity. The magazine is a way that members can give to the group, sharing their enjoyment, as well as being a marketing vehicle.

The membership of IP shows a rapid turnover - approximately half the membership has belonged for less than a year. Exact figures are not available, but experience shows that some members join only to find IP is not what they need; others may find partners early on and find that IP has then fulfilled their need (one couple met at an introductory meeting and never joined, getting married fairly soon afterwards!); and for others IP becomes a mainstay of their lives. Unquestionably IP has helped many people over a difficult time in their lives and to others given a new lease of life. The pity is that many people for whom IP could be such a good thing probably never join, either because they are shy of joining a singles group, or because they are deterred by the "singles stigma" which still exists in some people's minds.

IP is not a dating agency but insofar as it brings single men and women together in a social environment, it inevitably results in new relationships being formed. We have had many such pairings off and a considerable number of marriages. Married people may not join IP, but if they marry within IP they are allowed to stay on - although often such couples' interests lead them ultimately to find new social areas.

Confidentiality is an important part of IP protocol. We are a private club and at all times members are required not to divulge membership data.


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